As The Shade Room previously reported, Jesseca Harris-Dupart took to Instagram last week to defend her wife amid the backlash for her joke.
In a video post, Harris-Dupart explained that she and her wife did not reject the Black sperm donor because of his looks; they instead had to use another sperm donor, who is non-Black, due to the results of genetic testing.
“So, as a mother of 3 beautiful black kids, and even a black grand baby I want to CLARIFY SHIT to avoid this STORYLINE from continuing that we choose our donor off of looks and that we didn’t want a black donor …… here’s some things you should know 1) WE HAD NO IDEA GOING INTO THIS THAT our chances of a black donor would be slim to none 2) that I was a carrier of so many disorders 3) that our window was SOOOO slim and such high risk cus of age and more 4) with my genetic testing I’m the carrier of 4 disorders, that reduced our chances of a black donor down to 1 person and that 1 person had very limited info / portfolio to judge on ….. including BACKGROUND”
It’s important to note that although Harris-Dupart did defend Da Brat, she admitted that her wife’s joke was “distasteful.”
“the headlines are misleading but also my wife made a distasteful joke and now it’s attached to the headline and making it seem like we choose strictly off of looks and we didn’t at all attempt to find a black donor when in fact not only did we try but we also waited to see if more would pop up over time – but had to stay within the window that we had to choose…”
Harris-Dupart concluded her message by explaining that, ultimately, not using a Black sperm donor was a “hard decision.”
However, she hopes that the misunderstanding around her wife’s comment can bring awareness to the lack of Black sperm donors and increase donations.
“our baby created with a HEALTHY baby first mindset once we learned all the things , was a hard decision and of course we didn’t want to add any other stigmas or anything to our child but we had SEVERELY limited options . Thanks to all the people supporting us on our journey and I truely hope this brings Awareness to more black men to donate.”